Bonded by Evolution

We're often told that men and women have different desires in relationships; while men seek novelty, women prioritize commitment. Men are presumed to focus on appearances, whereas women are concerned with status. Society seems to suggest that there's a romantic hierarchy, labeling some as being perfect "10s" and others much lower, designating some as ideal marriage partners and others as promiscuous. However, these commonly held beliefs lack scientific support. They stem from evolutionary psychology, a field whose ideas have become widespread, often leading to widespread pessimism and, at its worst, supporting misogynistic and violent attitudes.The actual truth about human attraction, and how evolution influences our romantic interactions, is far more intriguing and hopeful. "Bonded by Evolution" presents a groundbreaking view of the depths of lasting attraction. Through a synthesis of evolutionary biology, anthropology, and psychology, along with innovative research and experiments conducted at the Attraction and Relationships Research Laboratory in California, psychology professor Paul Eastwick explores the complexity of forming a harmonious relationship. By understanding how ancient humans selected compatible mates within small communities, we can attain a clearer and more positive understanding of attraction, sex, and romantic relationships.